Writing

Notes From the Journey

Essays and reflections on faith deconstruction, religious trauma, and finding your way after something foundational has shifted.

Aug 2026
Do I need counselling for faith deconstruction, religious trauma or leaving church?

The majority of clients I have worked with have faced their journey in isolation out of fear of rejection, abandonment or punishment; some even remain within the religious environment despite their inner-world being completely reshaped.

Aug 2026
How to stop feeling guilty for leaving your faith

Whether you’ve been a person of faith all your life, or for only a number of years, it’s valuable to reflect on how much faith becomes a part

Aug 2026
What is Faith Deconstruction and why does it feel like grief?

For the majority of those who deconstruct their faith, the silent grief and pain is a very lonely path because there is literally no one they can share this with - or at the very least - no one who would truly understand.

Aug 2026
Navigating the 'Sunday Scaries' of Faith Deconstruction

Doubt, Faith Deconstruction and Leaving the Church Behind One of the most painful experiences for someone who has grown up in religion is the journey from questioning, doubting, and deconstructing

Aug 2026
Why we keep repeating the same relationship patterns.

Do you find yourself repeating the same arguments with your partner, getting into similar conflicts with friends or family, or letting people treat you in ways that frustrate or hurt

Aug 2026
The Benefits of Online Therapy

More people are choosing online therapy in the UK. Why? It's convenient, confidential, flexible, and accessible. You can fit it around your life without the added time it takes to travel to and from a session.

Aug 2026
What is Therapy Actually Like?

A Therapist's Honest Take If you've never been in therapy before, the whole idea of sitting with someone you don't know, opening up and